Monday, 13 May 2013

Solitude addicts anonymous!

Work, school, exams, office, overtime, delay in salary and many more... we walk over the streets, wait for autos and buses while returning home with lots of sweat, initially it seems like there is no time of feeling solitary and morbid but it’s not always true. 

I am talking about people who say they are lonely but that doesn’t exactly mean that they don’t have any work to do, they feel lonely while doing their regular work. We often hear people’s response towards solitude or loneliness as “If you feel lonely have some good friends or date someone” but is it really the way to keep away solitude from people who suffer from it or we can say addicted towards it?

The greatest disease is today is not TB or leprosy; it is being unwanted, unloved, and uncared for. We can cure physical diseases with medicine, but the only cure for loneliness, despair, and hopelessness is love. A person in a party among hundred guests can feel lonely even if there are guest talking to him or her continuously. “Single and lonely” why do we say this? A person being single is not necessarily lonely and a person being lonely is not necessarily single. 

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There is person who belongs to nuclear family hardly consisting of two or three people but is never caught by solitude but there is a person who belongs to joint family with huge number of people is badly caught by solitude. There are also people who went insane due to irresistible solitude turning into sadism. We can never reach to a conclusion about solitude that it’s due to lack of work or an extreme need of a person in someone’s life. Solitude addicts anonymous... Anyone among us can be addicted to it irrespective of the circumstances or situations in our lives.

Let me tell you this: if you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy solitude. It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them.”

~Mrittika Das

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