It was a dull evening. With every second
passing by, I could feel the laziness taking its ride on me. I am a person who
needs to be busy even if it’s a matter of a single second I need to do
something. I guess this kind of approach towards my life was injected in me
when I was studying in Little Rock Indian School.
I asked my mother if she could make some
lip smacking snacks and I even intended to help her in the preparations.
However, she was in no mood to make anything extra for she had already prepared upma.
I personally do not have any inclination towards this particular Indian cuisine
and occasionally I manage to gulp it down indifferently. I decided not to have
this dish when my mother was just about to serve this cement-like dish on my
plate. During this course of action between my mother and me, my maternal
grandmother entered the kitchen and her facial expression was so obvious that
she had heard the entire conversation.
Her eyes reflected an offensive
reaction. She was deeply hurt by my action also my behavior towards the food.
“Is this what I have taught you when you were little? Did you know when you
used to eat this same dish passionately when you were not even having teeth? Do
you even realize the value of the food? Come with me. I need to talk to you so
that I can put some sense in your head” She says vehemently. I followed her
words and was also having a hint of guilt. My cheeks were burning and I was
afraid that I might even burst out crying in front of her. My grandmother never
spoke to me with such usage of words. She always spoke to in a composed
manner.
Once we both reached my bedroom, she
asked me to sit beside her. She started her defensive speech for my offensive
behavior. “When I was of your age, we couldn’t even afford three square meals a
day. We had no Maggi, no KFC, no Pizzas and no Colas or any
so-called-real-juice-tetra packs.” She says. She further adds on raising her
eyebrows and complimenting her fingers with her words animatedly, “We used to
work hard no matter if my mother asked us help or not. This kind of practice
was also passed onto your mother as well. We were never told to do any house
hold chores rather we would volunteer for it. But today’s generation needs to
be spoon fed every time, be it waking them up or be it reminding them about
their vehicle keys. Moreover, to save a rupee, we used to walk for miles and
this would help to keep us fit. When was the last time you walked?” I was
burdened with guilt now for I knew whatever she is speaking is 100% truth. I
have heard this so many times from many elderly people I have met in my family.
“I am sorry nani”, I say while holding her hands between my palms. She removes
her hand to show how angry she is because of my one stupid yet offensive
behavior.
Most of the societies and cultures
revere food. There are many people in this world, despite of globalization and
development, still starve and suffer from eating disorders like anorexia and
malnutrition. As I was remembering this fact my grandmother intervened my thoughts
and started talking again animatedly, “These days youngsters like you want
everything instant. This generation is suffering from a disease called
‘instant’. Before, for us, evening snacks would mean roasted peanuts, boiled
jack fruit seeds, boiled and seasoned garbanzo beans and sometimes black
chickpeas. We would celebrate functions or any festivities with sweetened
semolina having dash of banana and pineapple pulps, and mixture of curd and
sugar. But look at you moron, you have privilege of not cooking like how we
used to do. Everything comes in ready-to-eat packets. Even the masalas come
grounded readily from the markets. Gone are those days when we meticulously
spread the spices under the sun to sundry them, roast them and blend them until
its fine powdered. These days I often see newspapers publishing news about GMO
products!” When she said GMO products my jaw almost dropped. I was beaming with
proud feeling as well as surprised that my grandmother knows about the GMO.
To ensure if she knew what GMO would
mean I asked her politely not wanting to offend her again, “ Nani, do you know
what the word stands for or do you have any clue about its existence and other
jeopardy associated with it?” “You silly girl, just because you are
technologically advanced and pursuing higher education, doesn’t mean you can
think I wouldn’t know it.” She retorted. The day you joined journalism course,
both your grandfather and I feel really proud of you. And since then I am
trying to read newspapers and every articles in them. Most of them are
pathetic. Why would I care if some x actor is having an affair with some y
actor or x actor was slapped by his former friend? I used to read English as
well as Kannada newspapers so that I was informed well. I have read about how plants
are genetically engineered for having a high yields and how farmers fell into
such vicious trap followed by their horrendous suicide cases! I am sickened by
the government and their strategies to subjugate us.”
I was further pushed into being stunned.
I knew I cannot open my mouth hereafter, and she is attempting to know things
which most of us lack or rather say avoid. How many of us are actually into
reading habit? I, personally only glance through the headlines and most of the
time I only tend to read editorials in the newspapers. Some times when I have
time I just go through the updates on the current events through online news
portals. After having this insightful conversation with my grandmother, I
understood the importance of the food. I apologized with her again and promised
I will never have an indifferent approach over the food I am offered except for
eggplants and bell peppers (I am allergic to them). She forgave me and resumed
back to her usual routine.
The conversation with my grandmother was
remarkably moralizing. Most of us are now following the burger culture and fast
food culture. When was the last time you enjoyed the snap of a groundnut? When
was the last time you had roasted lentils? Without a doubt globalization has
changed the eating culture. Most of our eating patterns have strikingly
flipped. Relishing different cuisine is not bad, but forgetting the old eating
habit and substituting it with something which has negative nutritional value
is something dangerous.
Sridevi Nayak K
same happens at my home too :) honestly we buy heavy priced junk food which is just mediocre
ReplyDeleteHigh time to change ;)